Understanding birth trauma of new-born baby’s
Dear Mother, dear Father and parent!
In my first article from the first of November 2020, I pointed out how essential it is for all parents to understand the relationship to their very own existence.
Here, I would like to provide a more clear picture of what we, ourselves have gone through in the first stages of growing into this world and what it would be like for all babies to arrive.
No matter how well balanced a mother may be, or how tormented for that sake, the fruit she carries lives within a warm floating environment, one that we try to imitate with highly salted warm water in which to float is known to release feelings in us from way back then.
Even though the stimulus, you as a mother are exposed too would transmit one to one to your baby, we can assume it would still enjoy a fundamental amount of protection living and growing within insight of you, unless your torment induces harmful substances to interfere with the babies development.
Then the day of birth comes.
Although most mothers prepare themselves well to face this often painful procedure, the baby will undoubtedly receive an introduction into the world that would set all preconditioning for almost any further experiences it will have throughout its life.
Just imagine, it leaves the warmth of the mother’s womb under pressure, heading from the dark and moist warmth into a glaring cold world, being simultaneously exposed to unfiltered noises hammering right into its little, untouched ears.
We all have been through this, and it’s even for the toughest among us not hard to imagine what that would do to something as fragile as a new-born.
If we, on top of that, realise a bit of the realm the new-born is arriving from the shock-like experience becomes overwhelming and the desperate cry for help on the baby’s side only too understandable.
While the little human used to be all intact coming from a realm of existence unfamiliar to separation, it now enters a world in which its need to identify becomes a major driving motivation.
That is why the closeness to the mother, as being the only familiarity it has known in the entire process up to now, is so overwhelmingly important.
If you want to raise a child to live a happy life, to be healthy and strong, and to contribute positive change to you and the world, the intimately close proximity to the parents is vital for its entire future development.
And what an honourable job falls into your hands in the face of what’s to come!
Congratulation! You are the chosen one’s! Honour has been bestowed upon you to make a lasting influence on a world evolving while you and your child are present.
